5 Things Exceptionally Funny People Do
You’ll be more successful if you can make people laugh. Here are some quick tips be funnier at work.
The ability to be funny on cue is a huge business asset. Coworkers, employees, bosses and customer alike enjoy working with people who can bring some laughter into a stress-filled workplace.
While some people are natural humorists, being funny is a set of skills just that can be learned, according to David Nihill, author of Do You Talk Funny? 7 Comedy Habits to Become a Better (and Funnier) Public Speaker.
Here's what he learned from interviewing dozens of comedians:
1. They tell stories not jokes
A joke is a fake story that sets up for a punchline. If the punchline falls flat, you end up looking like a fool.
Rather than tell jokes, exceptionally funny people tell relevant stories that have humorous elements.
If people don't find a story funny, no big deal, because the story has a point beyond just being funny. If people laugh, so much the better.
2. They keep a "funny file"
Exceptionally funny people don't depend upon their memory to keep track of everything they discover that they find funny.
In the olden days, great comedians carried notebooks to jot down funny thoughts or observations and scrapbooks for news clippings that struck them as funny.
Today, you can do that easily with your smartphone. If you have a funny thought, record it as a audio note. If you read a funny article, save the link in your bookmarks.
3. They draw on real-life experiences
Ever since the 1960s, exceptionally funny people have relied upon what's called "observational humor" to make people laugh.
The classic examples of this are Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David, whose experiences led not just to standup comedy, but two award-winning comedy shows.
The beauty of using personal experiences as fodder for humor is that your life experience is unique and therefore stories based on it are guaranteed to be original.
4. They get to the point
There's an old saying "brevity is the soul of wit." Exceptionally funny people leave out the boring details and get to the funny part as quickly as possible.
However, while they get to the point quickly, exceptionally funny people put the funny part at the end, rather than in the middle.
My personal favorite example of this is from Jack Handey: "The crows seemed to be calling his name, thought Caw."
5. They use voices to create characters.
The funniest stories are always about people and people are only funny (in the telling) if they have something to say.
Exceptionally funny people use different voices to represent the different people in their story or even different states of mind of the same person.
For example, if your story has you saying something aloud but thinking something different, you make your "aloud" voice very clear and your "thinking" voice an (audible) side whisper.